So I was asked to contribute to a blog/ lifestyle magazine on fashion and what I thought about it.

I’m a rather opinionated mofo and am certain that some people may not know what to make of what I say.

Why fashion? I love it.

Why style? I’m all about the aesthetic.

Yes people there is a difference! When you understand that life will be so much easier.

But before I get carried away I wanted to talk about beauty and what beauty means to me.

I’m writing this from the perspective of a boy and can’t believe I’m going to say this.

Beauty is YOU.

It’s everything about you.

Your looks.

How you think.

How you feel.

How you dream.

How you treat people.

How you treat yourself.

We live in a society that seems to confuse beauty with sexy or hot!

Why lie… I am attracted to a certain body type. But that doesn’t mean I find other women less beautiful.

We need to start admiring that.

But I digress.

There is no right or wrong with beauty. You just are.

The perfect body? Who knows what that is. And who really cares. Just know and believe you are beautiful.

Knowing you are beautiful is accepting who you are. Maybe you’re blessed with the so called perfect body or you have some extra curves. Why does it matter what someone thinks about your body?

There are 7 billion people on this rock and I assure you there are many people who will be falling over themselves for you.

Why did I want to talk a bit about what beautiful is? Because too many of us dress to gain approval.

Want to look beautiful- I see too many people out there that allow the clothes to wear them.

Be confident in who you are and wear the clothes that make you feel good about yourself. Don’t be a page out if a fashion magazine… We are all unique. Why would you want to look like or dress like anyone but YOU.

As for magazines- Photoshop only makes things hot!

Sexy… It’s in your mind.

How you look at life with wonder.

Most importantly… It’s that little smile you give when you find someone beautiful.

Now go be beautiful.